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The Wonder Luster

For Those Of Us Whose Dreams Won't Die Between 17 and 65.

Life is wondrous! Feed your lust for life with the tools & inspiration to help make it a great one.

The Wonder Luster Manifesto

Some of us don’t want to give up our dreams in our working years, and luckily, we don’t have to.

It is up to us to reclaim the spark we had at 17 before we turn 65 and make our 9-5 years all the better.

Some of us simply can’t get excited about hitting the pause button on our sense of adventure between 18-64, when we’re told we’ve done our time and it’s time to retire.  We long to travel, explore, create, build, live unconventionally and see what’s out there.  Luckily, we crazies aren’t alone.

There are some of us that still have those pesky 16 year old dreams, and those still who don’t want to wait until we are told we can retire to live our desires.  We know we can do anything, but we can’t do everything- and sometimes that means shaking the status quo, and for some of us, that means taking the reigns of our financial destiny and making our money work for us not the other way around so we can build the lifestyle we want instead of pursuing stuff.

For people in the FI/RE community, Financial Independence/Retire Early, the concept is simple- save over 40% of your income, invest, and then, with strategy, live off your investments (stocks, real estate, side hustles) and never be forced to work traditionally again unless  you want to.

It’s simple- make your life about people and experiences, not about stuff, and you’ll be able to buy the world’s most precious commodity:  time.

What would you do if you could buy your life back and an employer wasn’t dictating your ever move? What would you do if you weren’t chained to credit card debt or depending on your boss to ensure you had a rosy financial future?

The Wonder Luster is my journey to reclaim the years between 17 and 65, the years we’re told to work hard so that we can have only our “golden” years back and finally afford to pursue your passions, travel, live debt free and enjoy life.  It doesn’t have to be that way.

Other FI/RE Starters:

Afford Anything – Paula built an impressive real estate portfolio so she could live life on her own terms and live off her investments.

FrugalWoods – The husband and wife team transformed their life from urban living to homesteading with financial freedom by embracing extreme frugality and a fun essentialist stance on what they need to live.

Choose FI – One of my favorite podcasts of all time, everything you need to know about paying down your debt, traveling the world for free with travel hacking and how to build a money making machine that pays YOU to live.  Yes please!

Making Sense of Cents –  While Michelle and her hubby weren’t directly “FI” per-say, they have a very successful blog that enables them to live in an RV and travel the country and exemplify living life on your own terms by being creative and building a business.

Welcome!

Because you were born for more than putting your dreams on hold between 17 & 65. Reclaim your sense of adventure, become financially free & live your dream life before you retire. Learn more >>

We're on this adventure together to reclaim your life despite a 9-5! Get inspirational guidance on your own amazing journey with my weekly email.

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Some people just make the world a more vibrant pla Some people just make the world a more vibrant place, simply by being in it.  I can say that about these people- who make life more colorful, brighter and true just by being themselves. 

Grateful we could slow down to capture a little snippet in time for our family before we grow again. ❤️
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3 years since this photo was taken and my former k 3 years since this photo was taken and my former kidney became this guy's kidney. ❤️

I can say, I've grown to appreciate this moment a lot more as time has gone on.  It hasn't been an easy road for my recipient, he and his family have had a few health scares and ups and down, but I'm so grateful we are in each other's lives.

Chances are, you may know of someone in need of a kidney. 1 in 3 adults in the U.S., over 80 million people, are at risk for kidney disease.  While not every diagnosis leads to kidney failure, there are millions of people in this scary limbo hoping for good news.

I didn't know my recipient before this process started, but when I found I could live healthfully with one, I knew I had to try.  Donation is low-risk, my costs were generously covered by my recipient (both through insurance and the kindness of others) and I was back at work in 4 weeks.  Needless to say, it was easier than birthing a baby.

Candidates for kidney donation are thoroughly vetted to ensure the surgery, and life with one kidney are a good fit.  Trust me, your team will not ask you to donate if you have any risk factor of being in need of a transplant yourself down the road.  Testing took months and was incredibly thorough.  Your remaining kidney can do the job of two, and my kidney levels are normal and healthy 3 years later.

Even if you don't personally know someone who needs a kidney, please consider living kidney donation.  You can anonymously donate, be paired through a registry or find someone on social media who is in need, like I did.  There are literally thousands of people using Instagram and Facebook to try and someone who is even willing to get the basic tests.  You could be their person.  Have questions? I’m here for you! 

Being a living kidney donor absolutely enriched my life beyond imagination and has blessed my little family with a beautiful extended family to celebrate with.  Grateful for this day.
Life’s moments are made better with our pets. ❤️

Joey had been with us for nearly 4 years, made possible by the kind folks of South Texas Boston Terrier Rescue. I picked him up, intending on fostering him for a few weeks and ended up falling in love with his sweet spirit, exuberance for anything food related and his lovable derpiness.

Previously, he was kept in a small cage with two other terriers, all day every day and used as a stud. When he was no longer profitable, he, like plenty of others, was surrendered to rescue.  He was blind in one eye, needed teeth extracted and had skin lesions from life in a cage. 

Life hadn’t been easy for him, but I’m glad a rescue was there to give him a second chance, and they trusted me to give in his second chapter.  He was a well travelled dog and he was the Best Pup on our wedding day in Marfa.  Last night we said goodbye. Hubs and I will miss him dearly, but savor the moments and adventures with our little tank. 

Adopt, don’t shop.  Support your local rescues and give your fur kids an extra squeeze for Joey tonight.
“Is this enough for you?” My husband has asked “Is this enough for you?” My husband has asked me this before. To which, I answer- life is full, wonderful, and I am grateful. 

I believe he asks because before kids, I had a very different lifestyle. I traveled to Europe by myself, started businesses, donated a kidney, ran half marathons, got my master’s degree.  I lived a full life, then too. I was fiercely independent because I had to be.

I’m still that person, but fortunately I have more people to share it with. I also have to be more vulnerable than ever.

I had years to find myself and don’t plan on losing that woman I forged. Being a mom has also helped me heal some of the hard parts of the experience I had with my own mom. (I didn’t see that last part coming.)

Being a mom can make you lose yourself.  For me, it’s helped me discover myself once more. Grateful for this day and so many days - I’m just happy to be here. 

Happy Mother’s Day everyone. I hope you discover yourself, heal what you need and feel the love today and everyday.

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